How To Build Your Self-esteem With the Clothes Your Wear
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How To Boost Your Self-esteem With The Clothes You Wear
A lady with the right shoes can just do
whatever she pleases. Do you know Cinderella? The industry for fashion is not
just a blooper or boo-boo ideals. While education for women and values are two
more important things than your designer bag, fashion makes a huge divergence
in women’s outlook, countenance, and personal appearance.
Remember, the movie “Pretty Woman,”
where there was a scene of Julia Roberts' character shopping on a beautiful day
along the fabulous Rodeo Drive?
That scene for sure glued your eyes on
TV, not for the fashion, but due to the happiness, you can see in her character
and the transformation prominent in her smile, which is heavenly and a
reflection of self-esteem.
On the other hand, are you familiar
with “Dress
for Success,” a non-profit organization? Some poor
women who were homeless and abused are being helped by this organization to
dress them in a professional apparel to regain their self-esteem and join the
workforce again.
If you can see how these ladies are
being styled and transformed wearing a simple suit from Donna Karan, it will
bring tears to your eyes.
There are lots of studies and surveys
on how fashion affects your life, and most of them are one in saying that when
you feel good about yourself while looking in the mirror, you will manifest the
right attitude, competence, focus, and confidence.
Here are some do’s and don't’s in
clothes to wear:
Do:
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Do spell out your unique style.
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Do experiment.
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Do watch one’s step to vitality.
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Do commit.
Don’t:
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Don’t go buying with friends.
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Don’t be led by a lie that expensive
brands of designers are the only stylish clothes.
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Don’t anticipate your life will change
overnight.
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Don’t forget to look for an independent
stylist for guidance.
Do
try to figure out your special style
The environment where you grew up in is
a significant influence on the style that you embody. Growing up is an
indicator wherein you just have to search yourself, and whatever might be the
surroundings you are in, you just succumb to it and fit with the people around.
Well, don’t just fit in, distinguish
yourself by absolutely focusing on what style you want for yourself. Don't
depend too much on others' influence or what your family and friends want you
to wear. Wearing the clothing you want is the freedom you have drawn for
yourself, and that is where self-esteem begins.
Explore different styles not just one
kind of fashion, and remember to include your hair. You might have been wearing
your hair on one side for too long already. Try a new hairstyle for a change,
by either braiding it or tying it up in a bun.
If you have been wearing the same style
of clothes, try to dress up. Maybe a floral dress with matching cardigan and
jewelry, not just plain jeans and shirts every day, will make you glow.
Sticking to one style often makes your aura monotonous and dry even if you wear
the clothes with finesse and charm.
Do watch one’s step to your vitality
The goal of fashion is to be able to
manifest the beauty you have inside, hidden for years because of your
inability to draw it out. That’s all over now. Now is the time for you to go
out shopping and look for the most fabulous dress you want to wear.
When you put it on, listen to your
heartbeat, and hear what it is saying when you look in the mirror wearing the
dress and shoes. You like it, right? Now contemplate why you think that way.
It is because wearing a dress you like
transforms you into a new woman who is more confident, more professional looking,
and most of all, gorgeous and beautiful. You bought that tailored suit for a
reason, right? You enjoy being dominant and controlling.
And why wouldn’t you? You might even be
tempted to do a work out in a gym and leave feeling great in body, mind, and spirit.
They all go together so don’t hesitate.
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Fashionable people commit to their
looks and make no excuses. There is a feeling of freedom being just you
anywhere you go. So what are you waiting for? Make that commitment now to
transform yourself and sense of style. You’ll see the difference, far better
than you expect - self-esteem and glamor.
Avoid shopping with friends because
they will divert your attention from the initial fashion intuition that you
have. Don’t be a victim of a friend when you’re trying on a dress and she says,
“Hmm, I don’t like it!”
Remember, she is not the one who likes
the dress in the first place but you. So, as long as you like it then go for
it. Or try to shop by yourself so you can have more freedom to choose the style
of dress you want.
Don’t
be led by a lie that expensive brands of designers are the only stylish clothes
Fashion is also about building
self-esteem, but with that said, always prioritize what is important in your
life. Picture your life like a blank canvass and make a decision on how you
would draw yourself on it.
Don’t
anticipate your life will change overnight.
Do not presume your life changes
overnight, but bear in mind that the significant steps you take to enhance your
self-esteem will help you develop a healthy perspective on your life.
Don’t
forget to look for an independent stylist for guidance.
When you start on the wrong foot in
choosing the right fashion and lifestyle for you, don’t hesitate to contact an
expert stylist to guide you in making a decision and to bring back your
confidence in life. There are lots of them around, just pick up the phone and
call; they’ll be glad to help you.
Takeaway
When you see a person with self-esteem radiating from her eyes, you stop and
look at the person a second time. You can’t help but ask, what's with that
person that made me look twice?
Well, it’s simple, it's the right sense
of style. When you like what you wear, you’re happy. And when the style you
wear makes you smile, it generates confidence and determination, which draws a
powerful energy for you to be capable of doing anything for success.
Author Bio
Cari Samalik is a Michigan based
entrepreneur and Mom and the CEO & co-founder of Livnfresh
– a state related T-shirt brand. Previously, she worked in the healthcare, and
food and beverage industries before marrying into a screen printing business.
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